At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out, they fence you in. Life is messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. There are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross, but here's what I know: If you're willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance, the view from the other side... is spectacular.